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Question: Do you give your children an allowance? Why or why not?
What are some good jobs for children to start earning an allowance? At
: We don't give an allowance to our 9 and 7-year-old, because frankly we just haven't done it. My kids have asked for it and I think they are old enough. I earned an allowance starting when I was about 10 years old.
Allowance is a great tool for teaching values. What role do you want money to play in your child's life? Allowances help teach lessons about earning, saving and generosity.
That's it, the kids are getting an allowance starting this week!
What's the right amount? Maybe $5 for the 9-year-old and $4 for the 7-year-old. I guess we'll also need to go to the Salem 5 for a savings account too.
The Love and Logic parenting strategy recommends starting allowance as early as 5-years-old with a child earning 50 cents to $1 per age per week. A ten year old earns $5-10 a week. But they counter it with the children must pay you to do extra ordinary things for them. Missed the bus - that's a $2 ride to school. Didn't put your laundry in the basket - that's a $2 clean-up charge.
If you're doing these things for them frequently, that's going to be a small allowance. It teaches them the value of your time and their money. Great idea, but probably too much accounting for me.
: I am not sure when I began this, but I asked the children to make their beds. In return, they would earn money. Today, the children earn $1 per day. If they make their beds every day, they will earn a bonus and receive $10 per week. I kept this very simple so that the children can see an immediate result. The children always help out when I ask.
Beginning at an early age, it is a good idea to give them the concept of helping out. They do it at school as well.
: Our kids are expected to do chores (clear table, put away laundry, clean room, etc.) These are expected as members of our household. If one of our kids wants to earn money to buy something then we give them jobs where they can earn it (clean out the garage, rake the yard).
So, we do not do allowance in our house.
I think offering allowance can be a great opportunity to teach the value of a dollar if presented well and the family is consistent with how it works. I have also heard about kids receiving allowance and 20 percent goes to savings, 20 percent goes to a charity and 60 percent for spending. I like this concept.